10/30/2007

I'm back! + Drinks Theory

是的,我从一千多年前的古寺庙内全身而退
回到弹丸小国、我工作的岗位、现实生活、名为-新加坡-的国度。
之前几天忙着打扫、收拾、休息、整理照片(未完成)
3GB多总数1700多张的照片整理起来还真费时费精神
我想,如果我把所有的照片放上网应该没有人会有耐心看完吧
所以,将适量的照片整理出来是目前的任务
希望这个周末能把它们整理完毕
之后再记下当时的心情^^

回到公司第一天 server down了半天
同事update我最新消息
另一个同事 终于还是分手了
有些话说不出口 但终究有份惋惜
四五年的感情累积累积再累积
换来的却是如水般淡而无味的感情

爱情、感情有时很可笑
爱情初期像加了糖的汽水,怎么喝都是甜甜蜜蜜
就算一天单单只喝汽水也无所谓
只要彼此喜欢有什么不可以?

爱情中段是果汁 两人累积到一定的了解信任
果汁有酸有甜有苦 
最适合代表争吵过、原谅过、开心过、痛苦过的恋情

爱情长跑终究会走到这个阶段--淡如开水
这个阶段是最危险的一段
因为有人会嫌弃白开水淡而无味 生活中没涟漪
而唤起内心里想换口味的冲动
其实什么饮料喝多了都不好
唯独白开水 一天至少要喝个七八杯才是上选

其实饮料当中就属白开水最消暑解渴
咖啡、烈酒、牛奶、浓茶、酸奶...
虽然美味可口却不能取代白开水的地位
或许,爱情也有饮料方程式:
爱情=70% 白开水+10%果汁+8%健康饮品+2%汽水+10%其它

所以,爱情应该70%过平淡生活,
10%尝尽酸甜苦辣
8%健康生活,培养相同爱好
2%惊喜,让感情在平淡生活中有所期待
10%代表与对方朋友,家人的相处
这是我的爱情饮料 对我而言以上缺一不可
就不知道我调的饮料合不合你胃口?

8 comments:

esee said...

amazing. U can really take a lot photo. Far more than what I can do. I dont hv a trip which can take 1700 piece of photos. Amazing hand, guess most of the time u r taking pictures.

爱情长跑终究会走到这个阶段--淡如开水. How nice you describe it, loving it.

U r a very positive gal. How nice if i could be like u. But... life is kinda hard. Many ppl said i quite negative. Indeed i always try to be positive as well But ...sighz...有时,我乐观不起来,当残酷的现实总是那么的赤裸裸。

~ggtay~ said...

When did i told you all the photos were taken by me?? I took around 800+, the rest was contributed by the other camera gal.

Regarding the Drinks Love Theory... It's just my feel lah. Every relationship will surely reach the neutral level. But water is something so important. So when you feel drinking the plain water is bored, maybe can think about its importance for us. =)

Am i a positive gal? I'm not very sure... half half bah... sometime i will depressed too... But maybe i'm lucky enuf, never really face such a cruel world you r facing now. But sometime, twist your mind if you can't change the environment. Cheer up, Friend! =)

~ggtay~ said...

And Esee... If you feel your life is cruel and how unfair you had been badly treated. I suggest you to travel to Siem Reap, Angkor Wat for 2 reasons,

1. I believe with your professional skill in taking photos, you will be able to take many many nice pics there.

2. While you taking photos, do pay attention to your surronding when you are in car/van/tuk tuk. You will know how the people live happily there even without the basic facilities like water and electricity...

Cambodia, worth to visit... Maybe you will have some finding after the trip. :)

esee said...

hehe.. it is m fault. I tot all taken by u mah.. misunderstood..keke

I saw my friend photo before. Not really hv motivation to go lor. I like those advance country or beautiful place, it make me more motivated leh..hehe.

I know from some perspective, we are really lucky. But.. usually we happy or not is depend on what we wish and what we get. When everything didn;t come right to you as you wish, we tend to be very depress and feel demotivated or unfair.

I know in that situation, they also happy, as their desire also less, i bet u not all of them happy, right? Reality of this world is like this, no matter which community you are in, there are some lucky ppl and they are some unlucky one :) it not defined by what u get, but define by how ur desire get fulfill ...

Anonymous said...

life is full of unexpected thing...therefore we need to cherish everything surrounding us... starting with LOVE- 亲情,爱情,友情及同事之间的情。。。think positive and stay postive is important as in others part of the world they are ppl who life in a more terrible life while we r complain our life... think openly might help nothing cant be solve in life

zhuzhu

~ggtay~ said...

Then maybe try to wish lesser... maybe it will make you feel better. If yourself dun really wan to make yourself happy, then no one else will be able to do it.

For them, sometime, they just want to survive even though they are handicap, blind, poor... Maybe they are not well educated and you may say simple minded. But i believe whether or not being happy or upset is a choice made by the person itself.

If you keep digging a hole, buried yourself under it and refuse to come out how you can see the sunshine is smiling to you?

esee said...

hehe.. i not buried myself ar.. that y i still here reading your blog..keke..dont worry. No matter how hard the life is, i still gonna continue... but sometimes i need a bit motivation..

it is not that u can go give 2 slaps to someone then still tell him "hey.. pls think possive, it is ok... pls smile... u can be happy" .... i thinks that is too cruel kua...

~ggtay~ said...

Hahaha... okok, dun worry, we are far enuf for me to slap you so u r safe.

山不转人转,希望你早日觉悟吧!哈哈~